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While most men who join our program prefer to remain under the protection of our confidentiality agreement, the men featured below have chosen to share their story publicly. These stories are raw, real, and powerful. If you see yourself in them, let their words be the push you need to take your own leap of faith.
Richard O. - COMEBACK
Before his transformation, physician Richard O. had reached an "absolute bottom," feeling complacent and describing himself as a "lazy piece of s**t" who chose alcohol over his family. His drinking led to severe health issues, causing his weight to balloon to 416 pounds. Since surrendering to the program almost four years ago, Richard has experienced a profound, measurable transformation across all Core Four areas. In fitness and health, he has lost a remarkable 131 pounds, dropping from 416 to 285 pounds, and now possesses the energy and vitality for an active life. The most significant change is in his family life: his relationship with his 18-year-old son has been restored, moving from embarrassment to a deep bond where they are now "best friends" and enjoy father-son weekends. His marriage has also been revitalized into a true "partnership," sharing everything with his wife, who is now actively helping him grow his new consulting company. This new venture, a testament to his financial and spiritual growth, allows him to teach others the systemic path he learned, demonstrating a powerful shift from complacency to purpose.
Adam K. - COMEBACK
Adam K.'s transformation, achieved within just a couple of months in the program, is a powerful testament to the impact of accountability and purpose-driven community. Before joining, Adam was "very turned off," "closed out," and "angry," struggling with a lack of authenticity in previous programs and a disconnect from his family. His daughter, Piper, noted an immediate change upon his return, describing a "spark" and a new "sweetness" that came with "God's blessings," highlighting a profound shift in his Faith/Spiritual life. This spiritual growth directly fueled improvements in his Family/Relationships, as he now shows up "differently" for his wife and daughter, enjoying a relationship that is "growing even better." His wife is now "a hundred percent in," rising with him on this journey. On the Finances/Business front, Adam, who initially joined with a business goal, reports seeing an incredible return on investment within just two months, stating the results are "beyond even comprehension." While specific dollar amounts are not mentioned, the rapid, measurable ROI and the holistic improvement across his personal life demonstrate a complete, integrated transformation that has brought his family along for the success.
Eric S. - COMEBACK
Before starting the program, Eric S. was a man lost, spending 30 years praying for peace and happiness while lacking the self-love and internal framework to achieve it. His career had stalled, accepting the "number two guy" role for six to seven years, and his relationship with his daughters was severely strained. The program catalyzed a profound transformation, starting with the daily goal of "No Regrets" and a fundamental shift in his Faith/Spiritual life, realizing that loving himself was not selfish but essential. This internal change immediately manifested in his Finances/Business life; within three months, he eliminated his self-limiting story and was offered the number one job in his field—a Cisco position—a lifetime goal he had given up on years prior. Furthermore, he is set to achieve this goal fully as of April 1st, eight months into his journey. His newfound self-confidence has extended to his Fitness/Health, where he is currently undertaking a 60-day, 100-pushup challenge. Most importantly, his commitment to his word has rebuilt his self-belief, allowing him to pursue larger goals and be a leader for others, a change that is now being reflected in his Family/Relationships as he works to repair his bond with his daughters, his primary "why." This measurable success demonstrates the power of an internal mindset shift to unlock external, tangible achievements.
Oscar C. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Oscar C. was trapped in a cycle of undue stress, isolation, and a terrible mindset, often drinking more than he should to find an escape. The program's initial process, particularly the "goodbye letter," served as a powerful catalyst, taking the longest but yielding immediate relief and a profound shift in perspective. By choosing to let go of the things he was holding onto too tightly, Oscar unlocked a mindset of infinite possibilities, realizing that the power to steer his own life was within him all along. This spiritual and mental transformation immediately translated into tangible results across the Core Four areas. His full-time career and his own business have since exploded in profitability and expansion, a direct result of his new, proactive mindset. Furthermore, his relationship with his family is now better than it has ever been, moving past the isolation and depression of his former life. Oscar emphasizes that the program is about far more than just not drinking; it is about constantly building, pushing for the next level, and unlocking the full capabilities of oneself to become the best person possible.
Zack D. - COMEBACK
Before entering the program, Zack D. was trapped in a cycle of self-deception, justifying his daily six-pack as a deserved reward after "running the business" and providing for his family, a pattern he had maintained for over two decades. He felt disconnected, living a "surface level life" on a "shaky foundation" of lies. The program provided the framework to dismantle this false identity, leading to a profound spiritual and mental awakening. He now describes his life as "f***ing freedom," characterized by a powerful alignment of "mind, body, and spirit." This newfound clarity has translated directly into his professional life, where he has been elevated in his company, and his personal life, where he is now able to "clock back into" his family role, leading with presence and vulnerability. He has revitalized his relationship with himself through faith, diving into the Bible and finding a new sense of purpose and bliss. Furthermore, he is actively "getting my body hard," transforming his physical and mental discipline to match his internal strength. Zack's journey is a testament to the power of authenticity, allowing him to create his environment and manifest his dreams with a driven purpose, replacing a life of complacency with one of intentional action and genuine connection.
Paul E. - COMEBACK
Paul E.'s transformation began after a terrifying medical scare—an irregular pulse following a major drinking binge—which served as the catalyst for his commitment to sobriety. Before the program, Paul was a "nighttime drinker" who would rush his family to bed so he could drink alone, living a lie that he was "not that bad" because he still showed up for work. The program forced him to confront this lie, leading to a profound Faith/Spiritual shift where he realized he needed to make a "gigantic shift" in himself and stop lying to his family and himself. This new clarity allowed him to be "fully present" at work, moving beyond just being "on the clock" to being truly effective, which is a significant Finances/Business transformation. Crucially, his sobriety has allowed him to rebuild his Family/Relationships, which he now protects fiercely, stating he knows what alcohol can do to those relationships and has no interest in going back. While specific weight loss metrics (Fitness/Health) were not mentioned, his overall health improved dramatically, moving from a medical emergency to a state of "peace with yourself" and a complete, controlled abstinence from alcohol. His commitment, initially for 90 days, has evolved into a permanent state where alcohol "just doesn't fit" into his life.
Jon W. - COMEBACK
After five months in the program, Jon W. has experienced a profound transformation, moving from a dark period where his body was failing and he was addicted to the pain he sedated with alcohol, to a life of authentic connection and self-forgiveness. His journey began with confronting the "old story" of pain, shame, and regret, which he ceremonially burned in his goodbye letter. The most significant measurable change is his sobriety duration of five months, which has served as the foundation for his spiritual awakening. He has embraced a new foundation of faith, recognizing that his worthiness to be here is a right, not a privilege. This spiritual clarity has directly impacted his family life, as he now embodies the love he wants for his children and grandchildren, even as he navigates the lifelong journey of reconnecting with his son. While the transcript does not specify financial or fitness metrics, the testimonial highlights a complete shift in his health from "failing" to one where he can look in the mirror and say, "I'm so f****** proud of you," a testament to his renewed self-worth and emotional well-being. His transformation is a powerful demonstration of finding authenticity and connection to something greater than himself, replacing sedation with self-love.
Shawn K. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Shawn K. was trapped in a cycle of fear and low self-confidence, making decisions that were primarily for himself and often failing his family, particularly his three daughters, by not being the man he knew they deserved. His lack of confidence manifested in an inability to say no to drinking with friends and a fear of being judged for his past. Through the program's focus on daily work and building true self-belief, Shawn experienced a profound spiritual and relational transformation. He now operates with an "all-time high" confidence, which he describes as "life-changing," allowing him to proudly share his story and "wear the brand" of his comeback. Most significantly, this newfound strength has enabled him to become the confident, "real man" his daughters can look up to, ensuring he can teach them what to look for in a partner and not to settle for behavior he once exhibited. This shift from self-centered decisions to family-focused leadership represents a complete reversal of his previous state, driven by the realization that his decisions are now "for the right people."
Joaquin E. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Joaquin E. had exhausted traditional methods like rehab and AA, suffering multiple relapses that severely strained his marriage. His wife noted that his previous attempts were short-lived, creating a climate of distrust and fear. The transformation began when he embraced the program, which his wife credits as the "only thing that actually helped" and "saved our marriage." The impact was immediate and profound, shifting his personality and giving him greater control over his life. This spiritual and relational clarity translated directly into ambitious, measurable goals for 2021, which he documented in his "Eno Life Creed." Specifically, he set a goal to flip and sell two houses by April 2021 and a third by July 2021, and to acquire another investment property by August 2021, demonstrating a massive financial and business mindset shift. Furthermore, the couple committed to strengthening their faith by connecting with their church and making it a standard practice for their family. The newfound stability and trust have led to a complete family renewal, with the couple planning to have more children, marking a powerful "after state" of thriving and shared purpose. His wife's trust, which was at "zero," has been fully restored, and their relationship is now described as a "20" on a scale of one to ten.
Derek M. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Derek M. was struggling with a recent job loss, which put a significant strain on his Finances/Business and led to constant arguments with his wife, threatening his Family/Relationships. He was using his struggles as an excuse for not succeeding, living with self-doubt, and making excuses to "fit in with everyone else that had st going on." The program, which he joined after six weeks of initial sobriety, provided the necessary "boost" to unlock his potential. The most immediate transformation was in his marriage: a conversation about joining the program, which would have "normally... ended in a fight," resulted in his wife having an epiphany and supporting his decision, signifying a profound improvement in their relationship quality. On the Fitness/Health front, Derek reported killing it in the gym and schooling others in dodgeball, demonstrating a new level of physical confidence and performance. Most importantly, the program created a fundamental Faith/Spiritual shift, eliminating his self-doubt and replacing it with a "Warriors" mindset, a fire to take action, and the conviction that he "can f***g succeed." This shift in clarity and purpose has set the foundation for future success across all areas of his life.
Ryan C. - COMEBACK
After searching for a supportive community for over two years, business owner Ryan C. found the "rebalance" he was seeking by joining the Kings program just five weeks ago. Previously feeling the isolation of being a leader—the "lonely at the top" syndrome—Ryan immediately found a network of like-minded men, noting that the group's ability to be vulnerable and share stories was a "great network." He has already established close relationships with a couple of members, planning follow-up calls next week to implement the strategies they discussed. The program's focus on prioritizing family and finances resonated deeply, leading him to make a crucial financial, time, and emotional commitment to his personal and professional growth. While he is still early in the journey, Ryan reports that the return on investment has already "far exceeded my expectations," demonstrating a rapid, measurable shift in his mindset and commitment to becoming a better man, family member, and business owner. The transformation is rooted in a new sense of accountability and a clear path forward, replacing his previous two-year search for purpose.
Matthew C. - COMEBACK
Matthew C.'s transformation was ignited by a pivotal moment: writing a "Letting Go letter" that served as a tangible, legitimate promise to himself that the old, self-focused life was gone. Before sobriety, he was hiding his potential and ignoring the chaos around him by medicating with alcohol, which negatively impacted his "F's" (family, finance, etc.). The initial 90-day objective quickly transformed into a commitment to a lifetime of work, recognizing that the end of the program was merely the beginning of a new journey. This commitment brought a much higher degree of clarity to his world, allowing him to focus on his business and family, which he had previously ignored. The clarity, though a double-edged sword, opened his eyes to the beauty around him and the opportunity to have a positive impact on others. By September '21, Matthew had joined the Alliance, where modeling the success of strong, successful men provided the spark for an unexpected level of business success that he had not anticipated. His transformation is a testament to the power of doing the work, using the tools, and embracing a liberating new identity, resulting in a life focused on his 7f's and a feeling of success he never thought possible.
Tom C. - COMEBACK
Tom C.'s narrative powerfully illustrates the financial and professional liberation that follows a commitment to sobriety. Having previously struggled with alcohol—which he described as his "main thing"—Tom was ready to leave his unfulfilling career as a deputy sheriff. His "comeback" began in 2019, leading to a sustained 2-year period of sobriety that served as the foundation for a complete life transformation. With the program's guidance, Tom and his wife successfully transitioned from a stable but stagnant career path to launching their own business. The financial results have been extraordinary: Tom confidently states that the money invested in the program has been returned three to four times over, demonstrating a massive return on investment and business growth. Beyond the financial gains, his family life has been strengthened, with his wife fully supporting and partnering in the new venture, a clear improvement from the stress that starting a business can inflict. This shift from a struggling public employee to a successful, guided business owner with a supportive family highlights the profound, measurable results of connecting sobriety with a clear, ambitious purpose, proving that the deprivation of alcohol is the catalyst for exponential growth.
Chris B. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Chris B. was trapped in a cycle of alcohol abuse that led to significant health and personal struggles, including a hospitalization and carrying an extra 70 pounds. Despite having a successful career and family life, he was unhappy, lacked accountability, and was not on a path to longevity at just 34 years old. After 14 months of sobriety, the clarity gained from removing alcohol has fueled a profound transformation across all Core Four areas. Physically, he has lost 70 pounds and now works out twice a day, achieving a level of physical strength and endurance he has never known. Professionally, he is more productive, and his employees have noted his improved attitude and positivity, allowing him to accomplish "amazing things at work" and tackle business challenges head-on. Most importantly, his family life has been restored; he is now fully present with his wife and kids, seeing their happiness with his heart. This newfound clarity has compounded his confidence, enabling him to face fear and challenges directly, leading to a lifestyle of continuous, powerful progress.
Jake K. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Jake K. described his Core Four as "a mess across the board," with his focus on faith being minimal. His transformation began with a commitment to aggressive goals across all areas, driven by the program's accountability structure. Spiritually, he moved from simply "checking boxes" to making his faith a primary focus, second only to family. Financially, a single two-hour session with the program's leader in December completely changed the course of his business, leading to a significant, unquantified positive impact on his Q1 2024 results. This single event alone made the entire investment "absolutely" worth it. The program's structure, particularly the "fact maps," helped him allocate dedicated time to his family, which he considers his number one priority. While specific metrics for fitness were not detailed, he committed to and honored aggressive goals in that area as well. The combination of focused accountability and dedicated time for strategic planning has resulted in a complete overhaul of his life's core areas, demonstrating a clear, measurable shift from a state of disarray to one of intentional, successful growth.
Kori C. - COMEBACK
Kori C. entered the program already a successful man—running multiple companies, married, and a father—but was secretly plagued by a "stupid little thing": his inability to stop consuming alcohol once he started, leading to profound shame. His transformation was rooted in a powerful spiritual/mindset shift, rejecting the societal lie that he was powerless or suffering from an incurable disease. The program's core message, "Stop F***ing Lying," hit him like a ton of bricks, forcing him to confront the reality that he was the source of his problem, which was the most empowering realization of all. By accepting that he was the issue, he simultaneously gained the power to be the solution, a concept that was "rejuvenating" and gave him immense confidence. This fundamental shift in perspective allowed him to reclaim control, leading to tangible improvements in his fitness/health and overall well-being. He now feels "excited to wake up in the morning" and is happy to be the "best DD around," demonstrating a complete change in his relationship with alcohol. He no longer views himself as an addict, but as a man who simply chooses not to drink, realizing that alcohol is "just liquid in a cup." This self-empowerment, achieved without having to completely abandon his family/relationships or social life, has cemented his belief that he will never go back down that path again.
Dennis L. - COMEBACK
Dennis L.'s journey began with a profound, objective self-assessment, realizing that alcohol was merely a catalyst for deeper issues, primarily a lack of self-discipline despite his military background. Before the program, he was operating on autopilot, even in his fitness, being "fit but not healthy," and lacking a clear purpose or outcome for his efforts. The transformation, catalyzed by confronting his truth, led to a complete overhaul of his life's foundation. Spiritually, he evolved from the man he was to the man he was "supposed to be," achieving true self-mastery and a blank slate mindset. In the realm of Fitness/Health, he moved beyond mere physical condition to become genuinely fit and healthy, capable of pushing himself further. His Finances/Business life has changed dramatically by leveraging the Alliance's resources and networking system, transforming his professional trajectory through a trusted brotherhood. This sense of Brotherhood/Relationships is a core pillar of his after-state, replacing the comradery he missed after retiring from the military with a genuine, powerful, and non-fake support system of "Apex Alphas." He now operates with renewed energy, purpose, and the self-discipline to continually evolve, ensuring he remains on the right path through regular check-ins with his peers.
Chad R. - COMEBACK
Chad R.'s journey to sobriety began in the darkest of places, driven by a paralyzing anxiety and a profound sense of being lost that led him to the brink. For decades, since the age of 18, he had been sedating a deep-seated childhood pain—a confusion, anger, and frustration—with alcohol, consuming up to 30 beers a day. This pattern of self-medication was a desperate attempt to run from a pain he couldn't face, manifesting in a work ethic that was merely a chase for external acceptance. In his first week of the program, Chad faced the man in the mirror, breaking down in tears and realizing the depth of his self-loathing. This raw, emotional confrontation was the turning point. He discovered a profound spiritual transformation, recognizing that he had a "bigger purpose," an "identity," and an inner "strength" and "love" to tap into. The most significant shift was the realization that he no longer needed to chase acceptance from others; his true recovery lay in accepting himself and building faith in himself. While the transcript does not detail specific financial or health metrics, the liberation from decades of sedation and the profound shift from suicidal ideation to a life of purpose represents a complete overhaul of his mental and spiritual foundation, paving the way for a true comeback.
Jon H. - COMEBACK
Jon H. entered the program's experience during his fourth week of the initial comeback, feeling a critical piece was still missing despite his early efforts. His initial hesitation was purely financial, questioning the investment before seeing the results of his first four weeks. However, this investment proved to be the catalyst for a profound Faith/Spiritual breakthrough: finding and confronting his fear, realizing that self-imposed limitations were the only barrier to becoming the person he already was. This mindset shift was immediately tangible, as he wrote more in his journal during the three-day experience than in the previous four weeks combined, establishing a strong foundation for future goal-setting. While the testimonial does not specify metrics for Finances, Family, or Fitness, Jon's commitment to "stay the course" and his newfound ability to "trust the process" and surrender to the program represent a significant, measurable advancement in his spiritual and mental clarity, which he now considers "priceless." His transformation is a testament to the power of investing in self-worth and overcoming financial fear to achieve a fundamental shift in self-perception and purpose.
Kyle L. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Kyle L. was trapped in a destructive, eight-to-ten-year cycle of extreme highs and lows, describing his former state as an "infinite destruction" that left him afraid of the actions he would take on himself and others. Since committing to the program and embracing sobriety, Kyle has experienced a profound transformation, primarily in his Faith/Spiritual and Family/Relationships Core Four areas. He has achieved a fundamental mindset shift, moving from a downward spiral to a philosophy of "forward up," which has allowed him to go deep within his soul and accept himself. This clarity has directly translated into tangible improvements in his family life, where he is now the man in the mirror he is proud to look at, and his children can proudly say, "That's my dad." His wife can now "proudly walk down the streets to a party" with him, signifying a complete restoration of trust and respect in their relationship. While specific financial or fitness metrics were not detailed, Kyle's transformation is defined by a renewed sense of purpose, self-worth, and the belief that success and greatness are now obtainable, marking a complete victory over his decade-long struggle. He now views the program as a crucial investment in himself, urging others to "take the leap of faith."
Clayton G. - COMEBACK
Clayton G.'s journey is a powerful testament to the transformative power of radical honesty and spiritual commitment. Before his breakthrough, Clayton was trapped in a cycle of self-deception, confessing that he was "never giving a hundred percent" and caused significant "pain that I had caused to my family." This internal struggle manifested as a six-month paralysis, during which he was unable to complete the program's initial step due to fear. The turning point came when he finally gained the courage to put his truth on paper, describing the immediate relief as a "wait... lifted off my shoulders." This act of self-acknowledgment "completely altered the course of my life." His transformation is centered on the Faith/Spiritual pillar, where he found a "New Path" and started "really digging into Faith," a crucial step he had initially bypassed. This spiritual awakening led to a profound clarity, giving him a deep understanding of "who I am where I want to go" and making him "more conscious of just life and love." While no specific financial or fitness metrics are mentioned, the resolution of the pain he caused his family indicates a significant restoration in the Family/Relationships area. Clayton's story proves that the most profound transformation begins with the courage to face the truth, leading to a life that is now "completely altered" for the better.
Brian E. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Brian E. found himself trapped in a daily cycle of heavy drinking, consuming "multiple drinks, many drinks" every evening after work, a habit he was unable to overcome through sheer willpower alone. His transformation, catalyzed by the decision to seek help, was a profound shift from a self-limiting mindset to one of purpose and control. While the transcript does not specify a sobriety duration or numerical metrics for his financial or health improvements, the impact on his relationships and spiritual life is clear and powerful. Brian emerged from the experience as a "better husband" and a "better father," having been allowed to "dive deep into what's important in life" and focus on his core values. This renewed clarity has redefined his identity, moving him from a man struggling with alcohol to a man focused on leaving a lasting "legacy" for his family. The program was not just about quitting drinking, but about adopting a new "lifestyle" that has enabled him to grow as a person, a leader, and a man who now understands that he has the choice to control his life, rather than letting his past habits control him.
Andy D. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Andy D. was trapped in a cycle where four weeks of productivity were inevitably followed by one to two weeks of being "in a rutt," a pattern he ultimately traced back to alcohol as the "one common denominator" in his bad decisions. Within the first three weeks of sobriety, he gained profound clarity, realizing the true issue was not the alcohol itself, but his choices and decisions. This shift in perspective led him to attend the program's experience just six weeks after starting, a testament to his rapid transformation. The program delivered the ultimate gift of clarity, confidence, and self-love, directly addressing his deepest fear of "am I making the right choice?" By connecting the deprivation of alcohol to a fundamental change in mindset, Andy has replaced self-doubt with a strong internal compass. He now possesses greater confidence in the choices he makes, knowing they positively affect his family and employees, enabling him to focus on leaving the legacy he desires. This transformation is marked by a profound internal shift, moving from chasing external validation to finding the internal strength necessary for sustained, positive decision-making.
Mike P. - COMEBACK
Mike P.'s journey illustrates a profound transformation rooted in spiritual and relational clarity, moving beyond the mere cessation of alcohol use. Previously, alcohol was a constant daily presence, a crutch for loneliness and sadness that left him feeling controlled and unable to even look at himself in the mirror. The program helped him realize that drinking was not the core issue, but a symptom of deeper, unresolved life struggles. By addressing these underlying problems, he gained the permission to be who he is, shedding excuses and embracing truthfulness, a significant spiritual breakthrough. This newfound self-awareness has translated directly into his family life, where he now enjoys a better relationship with his girlfriend and is present with his kids. While the transcript does not provide specific financial or physical metrics, the core transformation is a shift from a life of hiding and daily dependence to one of conscious control and authentic presence. He now has the power to choose whether to drink, and often chooses not to, having discovered new, healthy ways to manage boredom and loneliness. This comprehensive shift in mindset and relationship quality is the true measure of his success.
Mike F. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Mike F. relied on alcohol as his primary release, a habit that fueled passive-aggressive behavior and exacerbated struggles with his wife. He recognized he was abusing alcohol not because he was an alcoholic, but because he was avoiding dealing with deeper issues, leaving him merely "going through the motions" of life. Now, after nearly a year of commitment, Mike's transformation is profound and measurable across all areas of his life. His relationship with his wife is now the best it has been in over 20 years, a direct result of addressing his underlying issues. Professionally, the clarity gained from sobriety propelled him to take a big promotion this year, positioning him just one step away from his next role as CEO. Financially, this success has translated into tangible wealth, allowing him to buy a second house in Savannah and accumulate "a lot more equity" and "money in the bank." Spiritually, Mike has shifted his entire mindset to "do things on purpose," journaling daily and focusing on intentional action rather than simply doing what is easy. This holistic change, noticed by a "dramatic" number of people in his life, demonstrates a complete pivot from a life of avoidance to one of purpose and exceptional achievement.
Josh F. - COMEBACK
Josh F.'s journey from a decade-long battle with alcohol to profound sobriety is a powerful testament to the life-altering impact of the program. For at least ten years, alcohol was a detrimental force that held absolute control over his life, leading to a state of absolute desperation where he felt he had no choice but to change or face death. His initial skepticism was palpable; when asked about the possibility of success, he rated it a mere '3' on a scale, having tried and failed with other methods. The transformation, however, has been night and day different. By removing the deprivation of alcohol, Josh found the biggest gift of all: hope. This spiritual and mental shift is the cornerstone of his new life. Where he once felt controlled, he now experiences a freedom that he describes as "unbelievable" and something he never thought was attainable. The program provided the clarity and conviction needed to step into a life where alcohol no longer dictates his choices. He now lives every day in sobriety, a consistent, day-in, day-out commitment that has fundamentally reshaped his mindset and future. While the transcript does not detail specific financial, family, or fitness metrics, the profound internal transformation—the shift from hopelessness to absolute certainty and control—serves as the ultimate metric of success.
Matt P. - COMEBACK
Before starting the program, Matt P., an accounting professional and family man, felt lost and off-track, using alcohol as a habit to cover up his shortcomings and lack of direction. Through the program, he gained control and achieved a profound, measurable transformation across his life. In the area of Fitness/Health, he dropped a significant 25 pounds in two months and gained muscle mass, improving his health both mentally and physically. His approach to life's challenges fundamentally shifted; instead of reaching for a drink on a rough day, he now uses positivity and learned methods to overcome negative feelings, demonstrating a major Faith/Spiritual mindset shift. The program also positively impacted his Family/Relationships, as he is now better with his wife and family, and his career focus has improved. He now views alcohol not as a problem or a necessity, but as something he can indulge in socially with his wife or a friend, signifying a complete and sustainable change in his relationship with it. This transformation was achieved through a deep commitment to the process, resulting in greater consistency and focus in his daily life.
Frank H. - COMEBACK
Frank H.'s journey is a powerful testament to the transformative power of sobriety, moving him from a daily struggle with alcohol to a life defined by clarity and purpose. Before his comeback, Frank was consuming a fifth of alcohol daily, using stress as a justification for his habit, which created a toxic environment for those around him. His drinking was an everyday coping mechanism, a way to "hide anything or get past anything," leaving him lost and unable to deal with life's challenges. The single most significant transformation he attributes to his sobriety is Clarity (Faith/Spiritual), which has fundamentally shifted his approach to life. He has learned to "deal with everything" instead of pushing it down, indicating a profound mindset shift and emotional maturity. While the transcript does not provide specific metrics for Finances, Family, or Fitness, the spiritual and mental transformation is clear. Frank's advice to others is unequivocal: "Do it. It'll change your life," noting that he wishes he had started 10 years ago, underscoring the depth of his regret for the time lost and the value of his current state. This transformation is rooted in the deprivation of alcohol, which forced him to develop genuine coping skills and embrace a clear, present life.
Chris H. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Chris H. was caught in a cycle of self-sedation, using alcohol to escape mounting business problems and the general stresses of life. While he maintained his professional responsibilities, he admits he "wasn't executing the way I know I can," indicating a significant drag on his Finances/Business performance. His decision to join was an act of "complete faith," which immediately led to a profound Faith/Spiritual transformation, allowing him to feel he "got it back" in the "God's honest truth." The most significant gift he received was the return of his mental clarity and a renewed focus on his Health. This clarity has allowed him to start "setting goals" and executing at a higher level, feeling he has only "scraped the iceberg" of his potential. Crucially, the program has deepened his role as a father. While he was "always a good father," his relationship with his daughter is now "better," driven by a powerful desire to set a positive example and ensure she does not follow the same path. By hitting the brakes on his drinking, Chris has restored his ability to execute in his business and is now living with purpose, clarity, and a focus on his future potential.
Adam W. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Adam W. described his life as a spiral of decline, with "everything around me... falling apart" due to his choices to drink. He struggled profoundly with sobriety, admitting he "couldn't keep my head on straight" and was merely "going through the motions," existing on earth "with no purpose." His life was characterized by a lack of presence and a constant, draining effort to please others. The core of his transformation, facilitated by the program, was a profound shift in identity and spiritual clarity. Adam highlights that the greatest gift was the ability to finally ask and begin answering the fundamental questions of self: "Who am I, what do I want and why do I want it?" While he acknowledges the answers are still being written, he now possesses a foundational sense of self-worth, stating, "I know who I am and I feel like for the first time in my life, I'm a real man." This deprivation of alcohol allowed him to move from a state of aimless existence to one of genuine purpose and self-discovery. His testimony serves as a powerful reminder that the most significant transformation is often internal, a reclaiming of one's true identity. He strongly advises anyone considering the program to "click it sooner and follow through with it and not doubt myself," emphasizing that the program has fundamentally changed his life.
Mike R. - COMEBACK
Before starting the program, Mike R. was trapped in a cycle of anxiety, using alcohol as his daily escape to "slow down and get to sleep at night," a habit that quickly escalated from occasional to nightly. His life was characterized by an overwhelming "30 pages long" to-do list and a complete lack of choice regarding his drinking. Since successfully completing the program, Mike has achieved a non-existent relationship with alcohol, regaining the ability to choose not to drink. The most significant transformation has been in his Faith/Spiritual life, marked by a profound shift from anxiety to a "calm focus" and the return of his confidence. He reports having clear goals and a defined direction, a stark contrast to his overwhelmed "before" state. While specific financial or health metrics are not provided, the improvements in his mindset and focus are directly transferable to his Family/Relationships and professional life, enabling him to keep working on his plan and evolve his goals. He notes that he is "definitely not where I was three months ago when we started," underscoring the rapid, measurable progress in his mental and emotional well-being. His success is a testament to the power of going "all in" and committing to the change.
Rich s. - COMEBACK
Rich S. spent two decades in "cruise control," allowing alcohol to be an "always present" fixture in his life, particularly on weekends where he "shunned responsibility" and progressively drank more. Despite having a great wife and kids, he lived in a cycle of waking up and asking, "Why does it have to be like this?" and feeling that drinking was his "lot in life." He was deeply skeptical that he could ever change, never having tried to stop. His transformation is a powerful testament to the program's ability to deliver profound spiritual and relational change. By committing to the process, Rich found the direction and hope he lacked, transforming his mindset from one of isolation to one of support and connection. His spiritual growth is evident in his realization that he is "not alone" and that the program helped him find the inner strength he already possessed. This shift has positively impacted his family life, moving him from a 20-year pattern of compartmentalized drinking to a life of clarity and purpose, making him living proof that transformation is possible. His commitment to sobriety has not only changed his own life but has also given him the confidence to tell others that if they want to stop, the strength is there to be found by simply showing up.
David B. - COMEBACK
Before starting the program, David B. described his life as chaotic, living in a "big fog," feeling lost and directionless. His alcohol consumption was a heavy, daily ritual, consuming his evenings without fail. The decision to remove alcohol from his life was the catalyst for a profound shift in his fundamental understanding of self and his future. The most significant transformation David experienced was a powerful spiritual and mindset change: the realization that his past habits were not an unchangeable disease, but a series of choices. This newfound clarity—the "knowing that it's a choice"—has become the biggest gift of his journey, empowering him to make better decisions in all areas of his life. By embracing the program's philosophy, David moved from a state of heavy, daily drinking and existential confusion to one of self-determination and purpose. While the transcript does not detail specific, measurable outcomes in finances, family, or fitness, the core victory is the deep-seated belief in his own agency. This fundamental shift from feeling "lost" to being an active agent in his own life is the bedrock upon which all future transformations will be built, proving that if you're not dead, you're not done.
Jay k. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Jay K. described his relationship with alcohol as "brutal," a 24/7 cycle that left him "completely trashed" and living in a state of survival. This destructive pattern had a catastrophic impact on every area of his life, particularly his business and, most painfully, his relationship with his children, which he called "horrible." The decision to commit to sobriety has resulted in a transformation that is nothing short of "night and day." In just 12 weeks, Jay has taken back control, replacing a life of chaos with clear intent and purpose. The most tangible results are evident in his health and family life. He has achieved a remarkable physical transformation, losing 35 pounds in the first 12 weeks and feeling "freaking amazing." More profoundly, his relationship with his children has improved "tenfold," with both kids rating their connection with him as "infinity" during a recent call. Furthermore, his professional life is flourishing, with his businesses taking off now that he is operating with control and clarity. Jay’s story is a powerful testament to how removing the deprivation of alcohol can immediately restore purpose, health, and deep family connection, leading to measurable success across all Core Four areas.
jason j. - COMEBACK
Jason J.'s journey began after a 15 to 17-year relationship with alcohol, which had devolved into a daily consumption of 18 to 24 or more beers, starting every afternoon at 2 PM. This destructive habit led him to constantly lie to himself and avoid his family, work, and his true identity. The decision to pursue sobriety was a life-altering commitment that took six months to fully embrace after initially reaching out for help. Since breaking free from the bottle, Jason has experienced a profound spiritual and relational transformation. He now possesses "complete absolute control" over his former nemesis, a vice that dominated half his life. Most notably, his relationship with his wife has improved a staggering 100 percent, a tangible metric of the program's success in restoring his family life. His newfound clarity has empowered him to step into his role as a true father, coach, and youth minister, where he now lives by the example he preaches, ensuring his children and those he mentors take his guidance at "full face value." Jason's transformation is a testament to regaining personal agency, moving from a life of avoidance and self-deception to one of purpose, integrity, and deep, measurable relational improvement.
garret g. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Garret G. described his relationship with alcohol as "controlling," a destructive force that had become the sole "focal point" of his existence and was actively "taking away" from his life, leaving him with a profound sense of losing control. The decision to pursue sobriety resulted in an exponential transformation across his entire life. The most profound change was a surge of confidence, which he credits as the biggest gift of the program, enabling him to pursue "bigger, better things" and finally become the man he aspired to be (Faith/Spiritual). This fundamental shift in mindset immediately translated into tangible improvements in his family life. He moved from "getting drunk and sitting on the couch" to being fully present with his family, dramatically improving the quality of his relationships (Family/Relationships). Furthermore, this newfound confidence and clarity have positively affected his business "exponentially," suggesting a clear trajectory for career advancement and growth (Finances/Business). His life is now defined by self-determination: "I'm doing what I want to do, when I want to do it, how I want to do it," a powerful narrative of reclaiming control and purpose that serves as a compelling testament to the program's life-changing impact.
Frank h. - COMEBACK
Frank H.'s journey is a powerful testament to the transformative power of sobriety, moving him from a daily struggle with alcohol to a life defined by clarity and purpose. Before his comeback, Frank was consuming a fifth of alcohol daily, using stress as a justification for his habit, which created a toxic environment for those around him. His drinking was an everyday coping mechanism, a way to "hide anything or get past anything," leaving him lost and unable to deal with life's challenges. The single most significant transformation he attributes to his sobriety is Clarity (Faith/Spiritual), which has fundamentally shifted his approach to life. He has learned to "deal with everything" instead of pushing it down, indicating a profound mindset shift and emotional maturity. While the transcript does not provide specific metrics for Finances, Family, or Fitness, the spiritual and mental transformation is clear. Frank's advice to others is unequivocal: "Do it. It'll change your life," noting that he wishes he had started 10 years ago, underscoring the depth of his regret for the time lost and the value of his current state. This transformation is rooted in the deprivation of alcohol, which forced him to develop genuine coping skills and embrace a clear, present life.
dave v. - COMEBACK
Before starting the program, Dave V. was trapped in a destructive cycle, drinking "night in and night out" for over 15 years, with the last five years being particularly severe. He described his life as "a mess," burdened by a "dark cloud" he believed he could never overcome. His reliance on alcohol as a false solution for every day—good or bad—left him feeling powerless and unable to fix his problems. The decision to step up and take action by embracing the program has led to a profound, life-altering shift. Dave's transformation is centered on a massive spiritual and mental comeback, replacing his former despair with an unwavering knowledge and confidence that he is now "unbeatable." This newfound clarity has fundamentally changed his relationship with alcohol, which is now merely an "afterthought." He has gained the conviction that there is "absolutely nothing that I can't overcome," a powerful testament to the internal strength unlocked by his commitment to sobriety. This journey proves that by putting in the work and digging deep, a complete and total life change is possible, moving from a 15-year pattern of self-sabotage to a state of ultimate self-mastery.
Alex B. - COMEBACK
Before joining the program, Alex B. described his relationship with alcohol as an "ugly, love-hate" cycle, where the temporary escape was always followed by days of regret and a spiraling loss of control that negatively impacted his relationships. He was trapped, using alcohol as a crutch while simultaneously hiding behind a facade, trying to be the person others wanted him to be. The most profound transformation since committing to sobriety has been the liberation of his spirit and mind. His relationship with alcohol is now "non-existent," a clear and measurable victory over his former dependency. This deprivation of alcohol was the catalyst for a massive spiritual and mental shift, granting him the "permission to stop lying" and to "quit hiding behind a facade." This newfound authenticity has allowed him to step into his true self, doing what he wants to do instead of conforming to external expectations. While the transcript does not specify metrics for financial or physical health, the fundamental shift in his Faith/Spiritual life—moving from a state of inauthenticity and self-deception to one of radical honesty and self-acceptance—is the cornerstone of his new life. He is no longer skeptical, having found a path that is "pretty easy" once the work is put in, leading to a life lived in truth.
Loui B. - COMEBACK
Loui B.'s life was once dominated by alcohol, which he described as his "best friend," but his inability to control his consumption led to significant personal and professional setbacks, including the loss of a relationship and poor performance at work, leaving him with "no direction." Since embracing sobriety, his transformation has been rapid and measurable across the Core Four areas. In terms of Fitness/Health, he has achieved a remarkable physical change, reporting a weight loss of 30 to 40 pounds, and has shifted his focus entirely to managing his diet. His Finances/Business have seen tangible improvement, evidenced by the fact that he has already bought a lot for his house, fulfilling a long-held goal. The biggest shift has been in Family/Relationships and Faith/Spiritual growth; he now spends significantly more time with his family, doing things with his sister he wouldn't have before, and has found a new sense of purpose and clarity, focusing on "fixing me before anything." He is now actively recommending the program, even connecting a church pastor to the community, demonstrating a powerful mindset shift from self-destruction to advocacy and commitment.
Disclaimer: IAMACOMEBACK is a personal development and coaching program designed to support individuals in achieving greater self-discipline and lifestyle improvement. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any medical or psychological condition, nor should it be considered a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider regarding any health-related concerns.
Individual results may vary. Outcomes are dependent on a range of personal factors including but not limited to effort, consistency, and personal circumstances. No specific results are promised or guaranteed.
